You’ve probably noticed the excessive amounts of red and pink decorations, bright red roses, overflowing quantities of heart-shaped candy, large stuffed animals and sappy greeting cards. Yep, all of these cheesy clues lead to one conclusion: It’s Valentine’s season, and the big day is but two weeks away.
For some people, these overly commercialized and sugarcoated tokens of “love” may seem obnoxious and silly. Or, perhaps for all my single ladies (and boys too), Valentine’s Day is just a nauseating reminder that they are single and alone on the most lovey-dovey day of the year.
Whatever your Valentine’s woes may be, put them aside for just a moment. When you take away the ridiculous decorations and strip Valentine’s Day down to its true meaning, isn’t it really just about demonstrating love? Of course, retailers have cashed out on this holiday by making it seem as if the only way to demonstrate love is through costly displays of public affection. However, no matter how skewed and commercialized the true meaning of this holiday has become, love is still supposed to be the core value.
This year, whether you have a Valentine or not, get into the holiday’s spirit a little early. Valentine’s Day doesn’t necessarily have to be about romantic love, it can be a special time of year to remind friends and family that you love them and care about them. With these two simple tips, you can celebrate the holiday’s true message, sans the lacy hearts and emo greeting cards.
Tip No. 1 — Give a compliment, or two. Giving compliments to others is one of the simplest and easiest ways to help give a little boost to someone’s day. I know that whenever I’m having a rough or stressful day and someone gives me a compliment, it definitely lifts my mood. Giving compliments can be as simple as telling someone you admire something they are wearing or acknowledging them for their success.
In fact, if you are feeling extra complimentary, compliment a stranger. Simple and random compliments are unexpected and can brighten someone’s mood. And who knows, you might even make a friend or acquaintance by simply acknowledging something you admire about someone. One of the easiest ways to break through an awkward barrier with a stranger is by giving a compliment.
With that being said, get into the Valentine’s spirit by telling your friends, family, acquaintances and even strangers something that you admire about them. It definitely won’t go unnoticed.
Tip No. 2 — Give a little thanks. Having a close group of friends and having a loving family are very important, but often their company can be taken for granted. Close friends and family will always be there and sometimes their presence in our lives just seems expected and their loyalty isn’t given much acknowledgment.
I’m not saying you need to write your loved ones elaborate sonnets or surprise them with flowers, but just telling them that you love them and care about them is all it really takes. It is so easy to forgot to recognize our loved ones for all their continuous loyalty and support. Giving a little thanks and gratitude every now and then is a nice gesture to show your appreciation.
Whether you have a Valentine or not this holiday season, Valentine’s Day is more than just the red and pink flowers. It is really about love and taking the time to appreciate our loved ones.
So before you completely write off the sugarcoated holiday, think about its true meaning and relate it to your own life. It doesn’t necessarily have to be Single’s Awareness Day or “obnoxious display of public affection” day. It can be a day to reflect upon your personal blessings and give thanks for all those who you love and who love you in return.
